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I used the cane and I now wonder if I was right to do so.

I was a teacher from the late 1960s until the late 1980s - a fairly short career as these things go although I was quite successful - spent my last few years as a Head Teacher.

Part of my job was to use corporal punishment. I believed then that I was doing this in the best interests of the children I taught and I'd like to continue to believe that. But I find myself in a world now where we're constantly being told this was bad for children and that worries me immensely. I just can't reconcile it with what I saw as a teacher. I saw it work. I saw it turn children around. I saw it help children. I really do think that's true. But I take psychological and pedagogical research seriously and I can't reconcile it with what I saw myself.

I am honestly horrified at the idea I might have harmed these children.
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Stick with you saw it turn some around. It’s Biblical…
patioratio · 70-79, M
@NoGamesTolerated Though I am a Christian, I don't regard the Bible as a child rearing manual.
@patioratio I didn’t say that. But there is scripture to back up corporal punishment.
patioratio · 70-79, M
@NoGamesTolerated Sorry - I shouldn't have implied that is what you said. But I have had the Biblical argument brought up before and while I'd like to claim that as some sort of justification, in good conscience, I can't.
@patioratio okay whatever.. feel bad… fine by me.
patioratio · 70-79, M
@NoGamesTolerated I'm sure you're trying to help - but if faith was going to reassure me on this one, it would have done so long ago. I've prayed on this many times. It helped me with other things. But not this. And I can't lie and say it has.