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I don't get how somebody being sober would enjoy sex with a clearly drunk person.

Two times I've had men pursuing sex with me while they were mildly drunk, I'd want to do it but I refused because I knew I had the upper hand. Mind you they weren't even that drunk and I also had a few and they were the ones inviting me but I still kept my conscious mind telling me no, it's not right.
People need to discipline themselves better if they have the "opportunity" to fuck with another person who's in a worse state of mind and they take it without hesitation. It shows you basically cannot get anyone who's thinking reasonably. Not really a thing to brag about or remember fondly.
Hassan · 22-25, M
Well they just care for themselves and want it at any cost. Maybe they can't get it while sober and substance gets their walls down. For u it might be ugly bcz u want intimacy. Intimacy has a big spectrum, some might fall for someone who touches their hand , some hair , or soul. Or even sharing the same vibe so u can get along.
I used to be like that on opiate and xtc , I wanted it at any cost, while I enjoyed a girl to be on it too, I was scared to involve her with something she can't handle. I always made sure to let them smoke weed tho. But yea of course I preferred if she's on substance too. Thing is I never had it with a sober girl or even asked . I just went to parties and wouldn't mind if a sober girl approached me bcz mdma and xtc comedown get the best of me if I go home alone,but again it never happened.
So that's why I understand why someone might consider doing it .
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@Hassan I'm kinda glad to hear it didn't happen with a sober girl while you were clearly intoxicated, shows that some people know limits and nobody approached you knowing you weren't sober.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I've never had sex with anyone else who was clearly more compromised than I.
I had drunk sex with another man who was also drunk the first time I had gay sex, and probably wouldn't have done it if I wasn't a bit drunk.....but it was wonderful and it changed my life. Reduced inhibitions allowed me to relax and enjoy it, but neither of us was really wasted.
Taking advantage of another who is clearly in worse condition than yourself is sick and wrong, but having sex when drunk/high can be enjoyable if neither of you is too far gone
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@DragonFruit yes exactly, it's a case by case but the general rule is know some limits and don't take advantage of others
Eternity · 26-30, M
Being drunk or high lowers ones inhibitions. If they are normally a reserved person, this can make for fun sex where they really let themselves out of their cage.

Of course, a man in these times would be wise to never have sex with a woman who is drunk just to be safe.

If she later decides she didn't want it then thats your life down the drain.

Not worth it.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@Eternity it's important to have established that first, people can communicate and say that they'd like to get drunk and do things, but when it happens randomly and spontaneously you don't know how safe it is. It's different to have a person you know getting drunk next to you because they trust the sex will be good and a whole other thing to find a random drunk person at a party and decide to do it while you are sober. Man or woman, it's the same. I know the drunk person might really want to get laid too, but because various things can happen during sex it's better to keep a distance because they might have reacted differently while sober and they might be putting themselves in danger without realizing it.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Yeah I can't fuck somebody drunker than me. Just seems weird. Luckily I catch up in drunkenness pretty easily so it's never been a problem 😌
I cant enjoy being around drunk people at all. Forget fucking them. I feel more inclined to throw them out windows ☠️
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Yes, I think you should both be at the same intoxication level.
SW-User
I don't get it either ...so sloppy
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
this has always been a though with me, I have always taken the 'moral high ground' at the same time, each time I did a lilpeice of me died because I get so lil attention in the first place
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer better than knowing that someone only looked your way because they were drunk
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
I've had sex when both of us were tipsy, but not drunk drunk. Usually, if I'm getting really pissed, I don't make advances, possibly because it's a bad idea, possibly cause I don't want to fall asleep or puke :P

I've never though slept with someone who was clearly more inebriated than I was as that would just be exploitation.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 someone who gets it
iamelijah · 26-30, M
Tbh I liked it when under influence. It feel less painful. But of course I tell them first then I let myself drowsy.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
SW-User
Drunken sex. It's just the way it is sometimes. I mean, even if you take alcohol out of the equation, some people are still dumb as fuck, so nobody is ever really on the same level. There are bimbos in the world, and their male equivalent. And not every drunken sexual encounter is wrong just because they're drunk. We're only human. We're not perfect even when we're sober.

🤷
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@SW-User drunken sex would be if both were drunk... sure we're not perfect even when sober but where is our decency? You don't have to be perfect to try to discipline yourself and avoid questionable situations.
And about people being dumb anyway, it's not the same as having a substance alter your state of mind to the level you have little capacity to consent to things. And also you raise a question about how right it actually is to have sex with someone who's less intellectually capable, like an actual disabled person (not the same as "dumb as fuck" of course, it just made me think of this). The truth is when you know you have advantage over others it's best to avoid it, morally.
SW-User
@HannibalAteMeOut Yes, I mean if you're sober and the other person is just wasted, you shouldn't even be thinking about it.

I guess that was your ultimate point.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@SW-User exactly
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
my ex gf really enjoyed sex with me this one time I was clearly drunk, it made me use my tongue more 🙉
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@HannibalAteMeOut of course I was the one taking the lead ☠️ Also when all you can taste is whiskey, it makes the licking a lot more fun 🤣
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst next time I'm pouring alcohol on it then
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@HannibalAteMeOut 🥰 i would love that

ahem 🙊
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Yah that’s not cool at all

 
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