I don't get how somebody being sober would enjoy sex with a clearly drunk person.

Two times I've had men pursuing sex with me while they were mildly drunk, I'd want to do it but I refused because I knew I had the upper hand. Mind you they weren't even that drunk and I also had a few and they were the ones inviting me but I still kept my conscious mind telling me no, it's not right.
People need to discipline themselves better if they have the "opportunity" to fuck with another person who's in a worse state of mind and they take it without hesitation. It shows you basically cannot get anyone who's thinking reasonably. Not really a thing to brag about or remember fondly.

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Hassan · 22-25, M

Well they just care for themselves and want it at any cost. Maybe they can't get it while sober and substance gets their walls down. For u it might be ugly bcz u want intimacy. Intimacy has a big spectrum, some might fall for someone who touches their hand , some hair , or soul. Or even sharing the same vibe so u can get along.
I used to be like that on opiate and xtc , I wanted it at any cost, while I enjoyed a girl to be on it too, I was scared to involve her with something she can't handle. I always made sure to let them smoke weed tho. But yea of course I preferred if she's on substance too. Thing is I never had it with a sober girl or even asked . I just went to parties and wouldn't mind if a sober girl approached me bcz mdma and xtc comedown get the best of me if I go home alone,but again it never happened.
So that's why I understand why someone might consider doing it .

HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

@Hassan I'm kinda glad to hear it didn't happen with a sober girl while you were clearly intoxicated, shows that some people know limits and nobody approached you knowing you weren't sober.