I don't get how somebody being sober would enjoy sex with a clearly drunk person.

Two times I've had men pursuing sex with me while they were mildly drunk, I'd want to do it but I refused because I knew I had the upper hand. Mind you they weren't even that drunk and I also had a few and they were the ones inviting me but I still kept my conscious mind telling me no, it's not right.
People need to discipline themselves better if they have the "opportunity" to fuck with another person who's in a worse state of mind and they take it without hesitation. It shows you basically cannot get anyone who's thinking reasonably. Not really a thing to brag about or remember fondly.

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Drunken sex. It's just the way it is sometimes. I mean, even if you take alcohol out of the equation, some people are still dumb as fuck, so nobody is ever really on the same level. There are bimbos in the world, and their male equivalent. And not every drunken sexual encounter is wrong just because they're drunk. We're only human. We're not perfect even when we're sober.

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HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

@SW-User drunken sex would be if both were drunk... sure we're not perfect even when sober but where is our decency? You don't have to be perfect to try to discipline yourself and avoid questionable situations.
And about people being dumb anyway, it's not the same as having a substance alter your state of mind to the level you have little capacity to consent to things. And also you raise a question about how right it actually is to have sex with someone who's less intellectually capable, like an actual disabled person (not the same as "dumb as fuck" of course, it just made me think of this). The truth is when you know you have advantage over others it's best to avoid it, morally.

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@HannibalAteMeOut Yes, I mean if you're sober and the other person is just wasted, you shouldn't even be thinking about it.

I guess that was your ultimate point.

HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

@SW-User exactly