Why are (most) men intimidated by attractive women?

@SweetFantasy Thanks for BC ☺️

@fun4us2b Hey, when you're the best, you're the best!

@SweetFantasy Nope you’re the best! you’re too kind😊

@SweetFantasy It rarely happens though now ~ but when it happens it just sucks ~ I hate it when they have an effect on me like that 🥴

@SW-User It's cool if it's a hot stranger in passing because that's a brief feeling but if it's someone I see regularly it could get me all in my feelings lol

@SweetFantasy I def won’t spontaneously approach an attractive man if he’s a stranger. it’s not a crush thing, or a cute nervous energy, i just conclude we are not in the same ball game.

@jackson55 Yes it can be sort of a face mask. 😷

@Slickmel in those cases, go with the women who wear little to no makeup then there's no surprises come night time when she takes it off

@SweetFantasy let the force be with you

@helenS ohh ok well. if she wants help i will. and i think we have chatted before Helen. im not sure lol i have changed my name a few times

@496sbc Haha if you changed your name then I don't know. You might send a pm if you like so I can see who you are.

ok i can. @helenS

@EuphoricTurtle true, men possibly also think "she's attractive so putting myself out there I'm probably already competing with other guys" ...?

@SweetFantasy I guess to some there is also that competitive side, it has nothing to do with being rejected by her but instead "losing" to another guy. Like I said, there are a lot of possible reasons and some may get misinterpreted as being intimidated.

@SW-User very logical. When you see a guy who you think is out of your league do you get anxious and fear him or do you admire that he's attractive and it doesn't get you down?

@SweetFantasy I don't get intimidated easily, no matter how attractive he is. :)

@SW-User Exactly, our mind stays positive we get butterflies and smile or whatever but I've heard of and know of men who instantly get afraid and sad just because the woman is attractive

@Jdanielb The slave mentality vs king mentality thing is an eye opener.

@SweetFantasy truth is my only purpose, I live in america but I pay no tax except on the dollar I spend, I spend no dollar except what I receive for free doing thing I enjoy, I dont submit to govt or laws but love is my moral compass so I rarely break any laws or make a nuisance of myself..

It has to do with actual laws of creations design and not fictitious laws of man's design..

I despise religion and its legalistic teachers who are confused, however I have read all sacred texts I could find from every culture; my conclusion is women thrive better than men in a world with fictitious designs and laws, (please dont take offense to this truth), for the woman is as creation herself and designed to nurture life and be subjected, men were designed contrary to nature, and born to subject her to their will. It is only a shame that men have become evil by allowing their own subjection, rather than being the subjector.. that may have a slightly crazy sound to it, but to help straighten out the view on where I am coming from , I say this, I think women are beautiful creatures and precious treasures, I can get a lot from them by just holding them in my lap and loving them, but I also am a just a male beast, born to reproduce, so the blood hound gang was not wrong.. "you and me baby , we ain't nothing but mammals, let's do it like they do on the discovery channel"

So then the synapsis is, dear sister, unless you desire to break the chains of govt, you will not find many real men, who dont cower at the site of a pretty girl.

@Katabasis It's almost common knowledge you hear it all the time that men are intimidated because the woman is probably very attractive. I just wonder why men instantly feel fear but women feel happy lol

@SweetFantasy Okay. I only come across it online. From my own perspective, her being attractive doesn’t make her a better person, or more competent at her career. So there’s no reason to be intimidated. Looks don’t save you from a poor result in a management review or other life situations. I might be ugly as sin, but I can still out perform or out achieve any Hollywood beauty.

@Katabasis That is very true looks are superficial. It's intriguing that men's minds usually go straight to the negative when women's usually go to the positive. I get happy butterflies when I see someone I'm attracted to, I don't get sad and scared of them because they're attractive.

@Dolimyte Those men who are intimidated are playing the waiting game because they don't act on their feelings they just sit back and brood.

@SweetFantasy that's true

@Reflection2 Yes, I think it refers to looks, or, more generally, outward appearance.

@Reflection2 Well we are talking about someone you would only really know of physically because you don't know them yet. So there are levels of attractiveness and it's to each their own to determine who is too attractive or not attractive enough for them.

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