Dating vanilla while kinky — worth the effort?

I've dated a few vanilla slaves in the past years, and the relationships ended when my kinks came up. I'm wondering if it's worth trying again or just sticking to people in the lifestyle.

Anyone here made it work across that divide?

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PrincessVelvet · F

Don't ever settle. I don't, and I couldn't be happier for it.

Josh1454 · M

I’ve always tried to find people with similar kinks to help fulfill each other.

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

No I wouldn't do it I need somebody on the same page as me otherwise it's like teasing yourself and it irritates the other person

dirge

I guess it depends on how important your kink is vs. how strongly you feel the connection.

Seniorsecurity · M

My wife and I unlocked each other's kinks and we still occasionally have vanilla sex, but I could not go back to mostly vanilla sex

Houdini · 56-60, M

Love to know your kinks

pdockal · 56-60, M

Depends
Can you get your kink on without them ?
Are you getting what you want or if the situation ?

VeronicaJane

What are the kinks?

BohemianBabe · M

Totally not worth the effort.

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