Dating vanilla while kinky — worth the effort?

I've dated a few vanilla slaves in the past years, and the relationships ended when my kinks came up. I'm wondering if it's worth trying again or just sticking to people in the lifestyle.

Anyone here made it work across that divide?

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Seniorsecurity · M

My wife and I unlocked each other's kinks and we still occasionally have vanilla sex, but I could not go back to mostly vanilla sex