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Any women here ever cold-approach men? Instead of the other way around? What about cold approaching other women?

What sort of results? Do the men (or the women) being approached freak out? Do they react oddly when caught unawares (unless there's been flirting going on)? Or do they melt into the moment and revel in actually receiving some positive sexual attention?

Does it tend to bring the women doing it better results than if they waited for people to cold-approach them? There's a heap of 'men no longer approach us' content in social media so just got me wondering.

Does it make any difference if women cold-approach other women as compared to approaching men? Do women approach other women differently to how they would approach men with flirtatious intentions?

I would presume it's a lot easier for a woman to approach another women and a lot more likely to lead to positive outcomes just because it instantly removes or at least significantly waters down any 'guardrails' that the approached women might have related to men approaching them.

Never had a woman approach me so I have zero experience with this to know what it would be like as the 'approachee' ie 'target' of a woman's desires.
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Waveney · 41-45, M
I've had a couple of cold approaches by women. But I have no idea if they're actually women or not, so it's an automatic block, especially if their groups are full of sex and/or discipline.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Waveney I think a guy would find it very confronting and put his 'walls' up in most situations, especially if the girl doing the approaching is part of a group hanging out and drinking together, as it could just be a drunk dare and not serious.

On the other hand, if a woman who was by herself, or with another girl and it was just them, maybe it could be nice as then the guy gets to talk to two girls off-the-cuff and providing they are single and not being set up by their partners who are hiding in the background, maybe that'd be positive.

I never do bars/clubs and if I go to a pub I'm either with my 8 y/o daughter and meeting other folks with their kids, or something like that. I've long given up going to pubs on my own when I don't have any drive to have a group of friends. I haven't done that since I met my second ex 13 yrs ago and never went back to it when I became single again because now there is no value in lurking as a loner at the local pub.