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bijouxbroussard · F
No, that’s not a huge gap. I mean, it wouldn’t be if he were 21 and you were 19, so there’s no real difference.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard i’m almost 22 tho
bijouxbroussard · F
@Katiecunn12 If you really like him and he likes you, the age difference here is trivial. If you’re not that interested, that is a better reason not to date him, and his age is just an excuse.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard i don’t like him like him, we just met yesterday but got along reallyyy well n had so much in common n i’ve been trying to move on from my ex
bijouxbroussard · F
@Katiecunn12 Then it’s kind of early if you just met. Bottom line is, the age difference between 19 and 21 (22; do you even know when he’s turning 20 ?) isn’t significant. And you may not end up even wanting to be anything but friends as you get to know each other better.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard yea he’s 20 on christmas day
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard but idk i don’t think i’m comfortable with it
bijouxbroussard · F
@Katiecunn12 Then don’t. Seriously, it’s that simple. You’re asking opinions, but the fact is, you don’t have to date anyone you’re not comfortable dating. Whatever the reason.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard i’m really disappointed tbh but i’ll get over it, never met anyone i got comfortable with that quickly
Khenpal1 · M
@Katiecunn12 at your age have a lover , not a bf 😉
bijouxbroussard · F
@Khenpal1 What does that even mean ?
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard think they mean someone to just have sex with no strings attached
bijouxbroussard · F
@Katiecunn12 Maybe it’s generational, but I thought that was a disrespectful thing to suggest.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard not really tbh
Khenpal1 · M
@Katiecunn12 at your age , its not about relationship.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Katiecunn12 Like I said, perhaps it’s generational. Just not something a decent man would suggest to a young woman.
Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F
@bijouxbroussard definitely