How do you decide to commit to someone?
Lately, I just installed a dating app to find someone to date and if everything goes well, maybe(?) I’d like to marry her someday. But as soon as I get a match and start chatting with them, these thoughts keep coming back.
I’m a 25-year-old guy, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. Thoughts like, “Am I ready for this?” “Is she the person I want to commit to?” “What if I meet someone who feels like a better match?” “What if there’s someone prettier who likes me?” and other doubts always pop up whenever I start getting close to a girl.
I’ve always wondered how someone can confidently decide, “Okay, I’m going to commit to this girl.” Is it because they’re genuinely so compatible that it feels right, or do other people also deal with doubts like I do? If they do, how do they overcome it?
I’m a 25-year-old guy, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. Thoughts like, “Am I ready for this?” “Is she the person I want to commit to?” “What if I meet someone who feels like a better match?” “What if there’s someone prettier who likes me?” and other doubts always pop up whenever I start getting close to a girl.
I’ve always wondered how someone can confidently decide, “Okay, I’m going to commit to this girl.” Is it because they’re genuinely so compatible that it feels right, or do other people also deal with doubts like I do? If they do, how do they overcome it?
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