Ever go through a phase where you have 0 attraction to anybody?

This past year has been like that, while it's good to focus on myself it's also quite boring.

One of my best friends is probably in the top 3% of beautiful people, guys fall over for her, fly out to see her, and Im surprised I have no attraction.
Maybe this is just me maturing in some form.

I guess with work and college I'm maybe too busy for it

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Sapio · 51-55, M

Maybe you just don't feel ready to date. You might want to look a certain way or be at a certain place in life. And you're not there yet. It's all good. You're not the only person experiencing what you're going through.

nazgul · 26-30, F

I think as people get older they value an intimate, personal connection over immediate physical attraction. At least that's been the case for me, because looks fade anyway. I'd rather focus on my responsibilities and have somebody I can go through some shit with than my physical ideal.

Sometimesitsbetter2letsome1go

Or maybe y’all are just aroace/on the arospec(aroflux might also explain it, it’s when sometimes you feel romantic attraction, sometimes you don’t)

PetalsOfLilac · F

I can relate. I've been in that phase for a long while now

MarbleMarvel

I get it. Sometimes life is enough.

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