An ex bf from highschool moved to the city not too far from where I currently live. He’s been here for two years. I want to meet up with him and catch

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Say with who

Keep it on the DL

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Up platonically. I genuinely want to know how his life is going. I have no romantic interest in him… However I am currently with a guy and I’m debating whether I should tell my guy the truth about wanting to meet up with him for lunch or should I just go to lunch and not say with who??

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SomeMichGuy · M

If you truly had no romantic interest in this former bf, there would be no post.

You are open to rekindling this flame or you'd have no question that you'd simply tell your current S/O the truth.

So start by being honest with yourself and then decide what you truly want.

MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy I’m afraid that my current guy will be upset and I don’t want to deal with his complaining for the hours leading up to it when nothing will happen over a small lunch in public at a restaurant

SomeMichGuy · M

@MissNoahLenFoxx Ah.

Well, perhaps nothing will happen...or perhaps an older door which you'd thought was closed will be revisited and look far more appealing...

Ferric67 · M

Open honest leads to the least amount of stress

Old51 · 70-79, M

Tell your current guy

dale74 · M

Bad idea if it is someone you have history with. Once that door is closed don't open it may not hurt you but him

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