Why would a guy be slow in approacjing you

One who is s nerd vs a popular guy

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I think it is the intimidation factor that plays into it. If she is attractive both men will find something wrong with themselves and not approach. It just depends on the mood at the time

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Because like me he's shy, introverted, gripped by social phobia and fears about sex/performance etc.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Uglyduckling6 Then he'll be very picky about who he approaches because he can 'afford' to be.

Uglyduckling6 · 22-25, F

@zonavar68 good point bur i mean how would he feel towards the girl. Can this questiom still apply to him or no

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Uglyduckling6 I guess anyone can be shy about making a first approach no matter what they are like in terms of looks or charisma. So yeah it still applies.

Mordechai · 31-35, M

Doesn't want to be seen as a creep

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