Do you enjoy being checked out occasionally

...but ALSO feel so self conscious at the same time???

An attractive guy was looking at me twice as I walked nearby today. Even though at FIRST i enjoyed it I felt so awkward as I got closer.😩 I really hate it. If he had ever talked to me I would've for a minute too..but if they show MORE interest I will clam up and I don't feel I am enough. I wish life were not this difficult when it came to love or attraction 😟

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mindlessdrifter · M

I'm not an expert but I am familiar with this very same scenario. I can talk for a little bit but I lose eye contact due to my lack of self esteem. The eyes may be the windows to the soul but how long can you see before the shade is drawn and the window becomes dark? I hate it but it also helps me learn. A long time with this, so it does feel impossible. Just something I have dealt with