Men say women do not like nice guys? It seems many guys are into catty, dramatic biotches

LOL. Yes, I know not ALL guys. But it seems many. Like they think it is interesting or who knows...
I know I really dig nice guys, and am not at all into the bad boy type. I have asked this question about a year or maybe more ago, here at SW. I remember almost all the guys said they do not like a bitchy woman. But it seems many guys would like a drama filled , loud woman over a shy /quiet type. I don't know... It's just an observation. But again, let me state it is def. not ALL guys, thank goodness .

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I think many oversimplify personality traits of both genders. As if nice and bad were the only options.
You know what neighbours say when some guy strangles his wife. 😅 "He's always been such a nice man. He always greeted politely"

Jokes aside, a guy that thinks about himself as nice because he's polite and isn't an obvious a**hole to others and therefore he's entitled to women's attention that he's not getting, is usually just an aggrieved passive-aggressive kid who seeks faults at others instead of looking within himself.
A really nice guy just thinks he's unlucky and stays nice even after rejection.

Magenta · F

@CrazyMusicLover Smart, you are.
This [quote]he's entitled to women's attention that he's not getting, is usually just an aggrieved passive-aggressive kid[/quote] goes along with the "adaptive strategy" Teal Swan mentions.