I wanna know what you guys think

So i recently re-connected with an old coworker/love interest (if you have read my old post then you know a little bit about our story)
I sent him a request on fb sometime in october.he only accepted it in january....whenever we exchange messages or if he just reads mine it always takes him a week to make the next "move" usually after midnight and between 3 am.

He is married....am i silly to think that his behaviour reflects he might still feel something towards me?
I mean otherwise accepting a request and replying to messages during the day would not be a big deal.

Before anyone attacks ne: i am not flirting with him,nothing inappropriate is goibg on.

**edited**
BTW lately i've heard people speculating how the marriage is on the rocks and thsy might live apart (different cities)
Also i have to add we had a nasty ending...
When i quit my job he told me "i want all or nothjng" i did not know what he meant so i kinda ignored it
He then heard i was proposed to ..2 weeks later he proposed to her now wife

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

May be, may not be. For a guy, these conversations can be very difficult to assess and understand ones own feelings. You might be dealing with a guy who has no idea what he wants but knows it's very difficult to vocalize those feelings of confusion. Relationship confidentiality, percieved infidelity may be more issues. If he just wants a friendship, he may be afraid of garnering suspicion that he wants more or that you might be used as a source of fear for his current wife.

I hope that you can figure out what you want and say what you want without doubt. If you both want the same thing, it'll go well. If not, maybe ask if you want to keep talking to him. These are my thoughts and I could be wrong but I hope you gather a person to keep talking to. Friends seem to be a scarce thing.

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@twistedrope thank you!