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Yes I would, I have nothing to hide.
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Jeephikelove You think your partner would agree😅
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Thandeka thanks for BC, if I had a partner and he wouldn’t, he would soon become an ex.
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Jeephikelove That's more like it 😉🤭
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Never! lol
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@JimboSaturn Awww why not? You busy entertaining people you have no business entertaining? 😅
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Thandeka I don't look at hers, she doesn't look at mine 😏
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@JimboSaturn I don't have time to look through somebody else's phone because I'm too busy for that but then again I'm a single lady. Whoever I date has to know that if they still want secrecy in a relationship then they should keep looking cause I ain't settling for that 😄
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
That is an excellent question.
Cheating is difficult to define though..If you are "with someone",yet both legally single,then either of you are vulnerable to your love being stolen away.
I say providing the person AT LEAST ends with you before embarking off with another,then perhaps at least they have done the "right thing",no matter the hurt.The worst cheating is two-timing,like having breakfast at home then getting dinner somewhere else,before coming home to supper...
Cheating is difficult to define though..If you are "with someone",yet both legally single,then either of you are vulnerable to your love being stolen away.
I say providing the person AT LEAST ends with you before embarking off with another,then perhaps at least they have done the "right thing",no matter the hurt.The worst cheating is two-timing,like having breakfast at home then getting dinner somewhere else,before coming home to supper...
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@wonkywinky I think cheating is easy to define. If you're committed to someone then you cut ties with every love interest you once had and focus on that one person. When you care about someone you do everything to keep them happy not hurt them by giving your love to other lovers.
I would I have nothing to hide. We both have each other's passcodes and I trust him
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@SlippingAway It's nice being in a relationship like that 😄
iamelijah · 26-30, M
Yes sure. I wouldn't mind that as long they not snooping my phone and spread it to the whole world. I hate someone who couldn't keep personal things in private/sharing someone's private matter to the public. They have zero integrity holding secret. like ratss! Snitches all the time.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Yep. I have no problem with it
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Fungirlmmm Apparently most females don't have a problem with that for some reason 😅
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Nah
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Heavenlywarrior I guess you're entertaining other women on the side. I mean if you've got nothing to hide you wouldn't mind
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
@Thandeka I’m just not doing that with anyone lol and I’m not looking through anyone else phone ..😜
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Heavenlywarrior I can't stay in a relationship where touching each others phones is prohibited. I like transparency in a relationship. I don't play when it comes to my heart 😀
Eternity · 26-30, M
Honestly think it's because the most attractive of people have a lot of options and so it is hard for them to just settle for one.
Makes sense; if you found them attractive then odds are good that someone else does too.
Makes sense; if you found them attractive then odds are good that someone else does too.
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@Eternity It all comes down to self control. If you love something would you let just anybody touch it? I bet not. Therefore I think if you love yourself you wouldn't just let anybody touch you. Picture a fruit at the market place that everyone touches. How does it look after being touched and felt by 20 or so people?