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how to get over someone...

I try really hard not to like someone if I know it won't go anywhere, but I ended up liking my trainer. He's such a gentleman. I'm nearly 40 and I've never been treated with kindness and care by a man before this. He was always professional, but I did catch him staring at me once when we were out at a group dinner. I play that moment over and over. I want to text him to say hi or something, since we don't work together anymore, but I keep stopping myself because I don't want to indulge these feelings. Crushes don't feel nice anymore at this age. They just hurt. How do I get this to go away?
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
Find a new passion that doesn't involve him.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@blindbob well idk what you're into. Maybe pottery, an instrument, gardening? Something that is just for you
blindbob · 41-45
@Lilliesandlight I don't really have passions anymore. I've been trying to focus on weight loss though.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@blindbob what about dancing? That would burn some calories
You need a distraction.Give a break from seeing him for a few days.
blindbob · 41-45
@Caleidoscope He's not training me anymore. I haven't seen him in 3 weeks, but I miss him.

 
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