If you are trying to be in a relationship with someone

they want your company and undivided attention but do not want to get married and have not got a spec of libido and make you feel like anything beyond a kiss and hug is an unwelcome advance then what do you do? It's very frustrating. I've tried talking to her about it but ended up feeling like it was my problem. At some point I'm afraid I'll just say "I've had it" and go into complete isolation for the rest of my life. What's wrong with sharing / showing affection and touching?

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AlvinoMartins · 26-30

There's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to get physically close to someone. But, you know, the other person might have different boundaries and all. It takes some good ol' communication to sort that out. And if both of you ain't on the same wavelength, I don't see how the relationship can last, you know what I mean? That's why I dig sugar relationships, man. We sit down like grown-ups and talk about the dos and don'ts, what we want and need, before we even start. It's all about being upfront and keeping it real.