If you are trying to be in a relationship with someone

they want your company and undivided attention but do not want to get married and have not got a spec of libido and make you feel like anything beyond a kiss and hug is an unwelcome advance then what do you do? It's very frustrating. I've tried talking to her about it but ended up feeling like it was my problem. At some point I'm afraid I'll just say "I've had it" and go into complete isolation for the rest of my life. What's wrong with sharing / showing affection and touching?

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

Ok. If sex is important to you, this is the wrong person for you. Friend-zone her and move on, and, please, never get married. Marriage is no longer about love. You can have a loving relationship more honestly without marriage. Marriage is only about how much the woman takes when she gets bored of you.

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

@IronHamster not necessarily sex but affection.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@Tastyfrzz "...anything beyond a kiss and hug is an unwelcome advance then what do you do? It's very frustrating." Right. It's frustrating. It's NEVER going to get better, and it will destroy the relationship given enough time. Your needs are not being met.