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Ladies, what do you expect from a man in a relationship?

Can you give us a head-up?
What women want from a man in a relationship?
SW-User
Oral sex daily
Actually pissing in the toilet rather than around it
Good hygiene
Knowing when to shut the fuck up
elafina · 36-40, F
Frequent checking with each other that we're on the same page, a warm hug and knowing he's there.
Practicalities that express care like cooking, caring for personal hygiene and the space around us, giving massages, providing (both) for mutual expenses, taking time to talk and share activities in public and private.
To be aware about the balance between providing security and allowing for freedom of movement..
Approaching sexuality and touch with a sense of sacredness.
Nurturing each other needs and unconditional love, receiving it with responsibility of course....
Renkon · 36-40, M
@elafina That’s clarity and detail I abundance. Hope the guy take note.
elafina · 36-40, F
@Renkon I'm not disillusioned with perfection, I forgive and I'm patient and soft. I'm willing to put in an equal amount of effort and understanding too.
It's actually because I'm too caring and understanding, why I need to have high standards..
GunFinger · F
Passionate
Emotionally present
Have listening ears
Renkon · 36-40, M
@GunFinger That’s a rare package to come by, isn’t it?
GunFinger · F
@Renkon sadly.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@GunFinger *taking note *
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
The same as what I would bring to it, love and loyalty.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Ceinwyn what exactly is loyalty means? Does it means not cheating?
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
@Renkon It means one person above all others.
Mikla · 61-69, F
A very good sense of humor.
Respect. A real man respects a lady, if a man respects her, she will respect him just the same. It does go both ways. We also expect trust and loyalty too. If a man cannot offer that, there is a reason for it. Also, boundaries. Many women tend to overlook this, but boundaries are important, where you should expect him to respect your boundaries, as the same is for him. If you could build on a relationship with these as your principles, you've got a good start.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Smarts, common interests, reasonably groomed and a healthy sex drive.
For me stability and similar values is the biggest thing.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Notladylike Stability is vastly undervalued. Every other qualities lead to it.
SarahB · 36-40, F
Honesty, faithfulness, and attention
Renkon · 36-40, M
@SarahB Will those three keep the relationship strong and lasting?
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Either be eye candy or buy her eye candy
Renkon · 36-40, M
@plungesponge Ok. Hope it works.
Problem is they dont even know what they want lol
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Whatawebsite Hard to argue with that.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Thats easy.. you can boil it down to one word only...

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Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
Kindness and respect
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Lilliesandlight Every woman deserve that
In general? I expect nothing. Unless it’s the man I’m in a relationship with. If he hasn’t figured out how to love me after 2.5 years, he’s hopeless.
@MorbidCynic nvm I just woke up. Someone who is emotionally capable of dealing with me (I have trauma due to my upbringing), doesn’t expect me to follow traditional gender roles (I grew up Orthodox Jew, I’m not going back), and is consistent.
CassandraSissy · 26-30, TVIP
Honesty, thoughfulness, kindness, some kind of personality, sense of fun and just generally cool to hang around...

Did I miss anything, sweetie? Oh....yes....and good in bed...

😘
BeJeweled · F
Being faithful, kind, even tempered, trustworthy
Renkon · 36-40, M
@BeJeweled How rare is it to find such a man?
BeJeweled · F
Very rare, but I married one@Renkon
Renkon · 36-40, M
@BeJeweled congratulation my friend.
pay them attention....... but, dont pay them too much attention...... and find out where that spot is. LOL
seabirds · 36-40, F
Hearty appreciation and bring there in their most needed times without begging for help
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Being compatible with me.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@CrazyMusicLover Will it take care of the rest?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Renkon What is the rest?
Renkon · 36-40, M
@CrazyMusicLover will be bring trust, tolerance and dedication?
Sunstone · 41-45, F
Loyalty, kindness, understanding.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Them making me feel sexy and special
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Reflection2 Welcome to the club.
Probably the same things you want, but on an emotional and cognitive level.🤷‍♀️

 
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