What makes a man want a relationship not just sex?

All the guys I meet have more fun with others than they do with me...
I go with the flow but the moment we have plans especially booked and I want to be there on time.
Somehow its always a problem.
They might be late once and I let it slide but the 2nd I get upset.
I hate tardiness and I don't think I should stop being myself.
I have to be honest.
This is when they start getting all distant and only seeing me on their terms

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LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

Wait…what?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@LunarOrbit you read it right...

LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

@Mellowgirl Sorry. Just waking up. What are you asking?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@LunarOrbit What makes a man want a relationship not just sex?

LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

@Mellowgirl The right man?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@LunarOrbit hmm... If every relationship ends up this way surely somethings wrong with me right?

LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

@Mellowgirl Not necessarily. You just might be looking for the wrong type of guy. Change it up.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@LunarOrbit this guy couldn't be furthest from my usual type...

I think I'm too demanding.
I desperately just want someone as I feel so lonely.
It's a deep rooted feeling.
Even with my puppy I still feel it just as keenly.

LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

@Mellowgirl Some people settle for less then regret it.

Others wait hopelessly all their lives.

Good luck.