I Wasted My Time On Someone

So the person I spoke of when I first posted in this category showed up with his entire family to the place I work and sat down in the dining room to eat 2 nights ago. Of course, it's a public place and they can come and go as they please, but knowing I was there they still stayed. It bothers my boyfriend to no end that they did that. I told him last night that there is nothing I can do about it, but he tells me I should tell him that I'd appreciate if they don't come in there anymore. I think it would be rude to say that. And they probably won't care what I think. Honestly, I don't want to tell them not to come in there because they weren't trying to bother me. What are everyone's thoughts on this?

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SW-User

Simple. Just tell him. You do not want this to happen again, do you?

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

No I do not want it to happen again, but if they are not harassing me there's nothing I can do.

SW-User

Not even a friendly word to say that it made you uncomfortable?

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@Curiosity: I spoke to the person yesterday asking him why they were there. He said that they were in the area after going to a water park, and the kids were hungry. He said he didn't want to be there because he knew he would catch a lot of crap from my bf, and that his wife did not care if I was working, she wanted the food there. So according to him he didn't plan on being there.

SW-User

If that is true, he probably won't come back anyway.

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@Curiosity: That's what I told my boyfriend. But he doesn't believe me.

SW-User

Tough call really. You can only be honest with him.

Trysta09 · 46-50, F

@PoisonLace: If he comes back, you could tell him you'll tell his wife he's still after you and that she should keep a closer eye on him. That should go quite a long way toward shutting him down.