Follow up post Seeking Love Isn’t Desperation — It’s Human. And Yes, Even Here on SW.

It’s sad how some people have made “seeking love” sound like an act of desperation. Since when did being open to love become something to shame?

Let’s be honest wanting connection isn’t a weakness. It’s human. It doesn’t make you needy, desperate, or lost. It makes you real. Everyone wants someone to talk to, to understand them, to hold space for them and if you say you don’t, maybe you’ve just gotten good at pretending.

Now, I know SW isn’t a dating site I’ve heard that line thrown around enough. But here’s the truth: real connections can happen anywhere. In grocery stores. Comment sections. Flight seats. Church halls. Even in the middle of a silly app that wasn’t built for dating.

If people can fall in love through letters, through war radios, through DM requests on Instagram then why not here? What makes SW so unbelievable when it’s full of real people, real emotions, and real moments?

I’m not here to beg for attention or chase unavailable people. I’m here being honest about something many of you hide behind sarcasm, fake pride, or detachment: the desire to be seen, known, and loved.

So no I’m not desperate. I’m brave enough to want love in a world that teaches us to numb it down.

And if that bothers you, maybe it’s not me you’re judging… maybe it’s the part of you that gave up trying.