luckranger71 · 51-55, M
I’m sorta guessing at the definition of silent divorce, but if it’s what I think it is, we lived in it for about 5 years. Then divorced. Now 15 years later our kids are grown, we get along very well, but could never be in a relationship with each other. I think it’s a happy ending as the kids are great.
tiltawhirl · 36-40, F
@luckranger71 it sounds like you guessed correctly and thanks for sharing. Glad things are as good as they can be for you now
YoMomma ·
I attempted to divorce my husband several times in the past and he me at least once if not more but i guess we are still together and i’m trying to be better.. come to terms with our differences of interest in life that i used to resent 😬😒
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
My wife left me eight months ago. She has her place and I have mine. All of our bills are our own. My kids are from my previous marriage and we don't have any together. She says she wants to be friends, but that's kind of shaky because she also told me that we are not getting back together. I kind of wish she'd just serve me papers. I need some kind of closure.
Rambler · 61-69, M
Just lived in it. I couldn't imagine not being there every day for my son and that was more important than anything else. Whether that was wrong or right I don't know. Long time ago now.
RogueLodyte · M
No. Once I am in an understood, committed relationship, I bend over backwards and do everything I can to make it work. I air my grievances as well. But it takes two, and once I realize I am the only one who is trying or cares, eventually I will finally sever it completely and not look back.
Achelois · F
Looking back, I remember thinking I’d just stay in the marriage, that was silently killing me.
Anyway I changed my mind and divorced him.
Life is so much better now, the fear kept me like a deer in headlights.
Anyway I changed my mind and divorced him.
Life is so much better now, the fear kept me like a deer in headlights.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
The relationship I'm in currently is toxic and we are basically only together because neither of us can afford a place without having a roommate to help with rent.
Like all men, he started out wonderful, then the more I got to know him, I saw the ugly side, but by then we were already financially locked in together.
Like all men, he started out wonderful, then the more I got to know him, I saw the ugly side, but by then we were already financially locked in together.
ArtieKat · M
I have no idea what a silent divorce is.
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ArtieKat · M
@tiltawhirl Thank you.
tiltawhirl · 36-40, F
@ArtieKat no problem sorry for being a bit rude I’ve just been a little cranky lately
ArtieKat · M
@tiltawhirl I'm sure that if that is the sort of relationship you are living in yourself that it must be very stressful. Apology accepted ❤
lissah · 36-40, F
What is a silent divorce?













