"When lies feel like love" Five years ago, I discovered my husband’s secret life online—hidden...

lonelyloner · 31-35, F

in my life am always lonely so quite detached from the main society due to some reason , many years ago (almost forgot how many really) one of my ex-coworkers suggested me to join EP and I was really shocked over that virtual world where I found many like mine and started loving that virtual life but am always honest there about myself still am here too , never care about how people react about me but still i feel it's still help me to get some relief in my lonely life

4meAndyou · F

I was married to three creeps. I have left and divorced the last of them after a lengthy marriage, and I do know that it is tempting to excuse someone you once loved. I used to go back to the ex's abusive childhood, and his horrifying mother, and I would try to build up justifications for his behaviors in my own mind.

But understanding WHY someone does horrible things is not enough. If you have not left him, then you need to start wondering if YOU are behaving in a sane fashion.

Magenta · F

Your first paragraph I believe is very common. But, the thing is, sometimes people get attached and develop feelings beyond just the lust. We think it means more or will be long term. But when they are done playing or it gets too serious, they ghost or disappear and that is selfish. They use women to fill that void without any care for her heart.