What do I do?

Lately I’ve been noticing I’m losing interest and feelings for my husband. We fight more, we’re distant, we don’t get excited to see each other and I just don’t want to be with him. I crave that “butterfly” feeling but I just don’t want it from him. Am I in the wrong?

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Spectre128 · 51-55, M

That is sadly a common side-effect any relationship. You normalise each other, take each other for granted and sometimes even get fed up of each other. You have to fight to keep it fresh, both of you do. Talk to him about your feelings, think of ways of spicing things up, go on date nights, find excuses to have fun together, so it's not just, cooking, TV, washing, etc

WalterF · 70-79, M

@Spectre128 Good sense. If any of us want constant pleasure, we will be terribly disappointed. You have to WORK at any relationship.