Anyone suffer from vaginismus?

I suffer from a condition called vaginismus. Due to this penetration is near to impossible, let alone painful. Was in an unconsummated marriage for 1.5 years which ended in divorce. It is a psychosomatic problem.

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WalterF · 70-79, M

That's very sad. But surely a caring loving man could bring much pleasure and satisfaction to a woman with this condition by gentle and prolonged attentions of an external type. Sexual activity between lovers = giving and receiving physical plessure, and that isn't just about penetration.

solitaire · 41-45, F

Unfortunately I live in India a country where the average man only thinks of his pleasure and to find a caring partner 🙄@WalterF

WalterF · 70-79, M

@solitaire You have time ahead of you to find that special man who will love you for what you are and put your pleasure first. There must be a lot of really caring men in the world

solitaire · 41-45, F

Yeah right now I'm severely depressed because I think I've been ghosted by someone who was very special to me online. Incidentally like you he is from the UK as well! I don't know what to do.

WalterF · 70-79, M

@solitaire Probably cut off all contact with him, block him if possible, and start again. Look on Indian dating sites, to be more realistic.

solitaire · 41-45, F

I'm just not interested at this stage. I'm so down in the dumps I haven't even showered for a week. @WalterF

solitaire · 41-45, F

@WalterF have you heard of a soul-tie connection? Google it and you will know how difficult this situation is for me.

WalterF · 70-79, M

@solitaire I think you need professional counselling. I don't think I can help. I wish you all the best

solitaire · 41-45, F

Hmmm@WalterF