Can you build a relationship with a person who has a score of 88/100 in narcissism test ?...

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

No, not a healthy one.

Perhaps research the concept of "trauma bonding" and investigate traits of codependents.

I'm not insinuating you have a trauma bond or that you're codependent, only that narcissists seek out empaths and codependents.

I have suffered a trauma bond with a narcissist in my past and learning there were lables for my experiences and that others have been through it too helped me finally move on and build better boundaries and healthier relationships with others.

Earldoesit · 56-60, M

Gotta remember it's just a test, it is not a diagnosis by a professional - I wouldn't put a lot of stock in it. It's a nice change to see a woman labeled as one - so many men get abused with the title. There are a couple women NPD's here I'm guessing going by their posts and behavior.

SStarfish ·

Idk narcissists are self centered and overbearing .. can you be happy with one?? Maybe.. will they be annoying and inconsiderate of you? Probably.. but even normal people do that sometimes 😒

OogieBoogie · F

Only if you are completely independent, emotionally balanced and strong, and are fully aware of the manipulation tactics and can evade them.
And don't give up any control or information of your independence.

You must be able to walk away at any time.

Then maybe ....yes

Dirtyboyy67 · 56-60, M

I would say no!

Rudboy41 · 41-45, M

Can you share the link for the narcissism test you speak of? I want to take the test.

in10RjFox · M

A narcissist makes a wife out of their partner because they can't be subservient. So happy life is impossible as they get insecure when they see their partner enjoying or happy.