Can you build a relationship with a person who has a score of 88/100 in narcissism test ?

Thinking of my ex relationship I’ve been wondering if I made the right decision leaving as I have ever truly loved her all my life. Most days I wonder if the abuses I received were exaggerated by me and if I could have hung in there .

I recall once she did a narcissistic test and scored 88/100, I didn’t even mind because I was in love .

I’m just curious people that know more about narcissists and narcissism, is it possible to have a happy life with someone that has that level of narcissistic traits?

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Miram · 31-35, F

If it well managed, yes.

Same applies to all personality disorders.

And human flaws and character defects.

Online tests are trash.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Miram Just to add, what constitutes abuse only exists on a spectrum based on its effects, not based on the actions.

That means even if an action isn't abusive according to other people but personally causes you trauma, it is still abusive. And your feelings are valid.

You are clearly affected. Need to stop gaslighting yourself and reflect on whether or not this is related to a past parenting style, and then break away from it.