Can you build a relationship with a person who has a score of 88/100 in narcissism test ?

Thinking of my ex relationship I’ve been wondering if I made the right decision leaving as I have ever truly loved her all my life. Most days I wonder if the abuses I received were exaggerated by me and if I could have hung in there .

I recall once she did a narcissistic test and scored 88/100, I didn’t even mind because I was in love .

I’m just curious people that know more about narcissists and narcissism, is it possible to have a happy life with someone that has that level of narcissistic traits?

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

No, not a healthy one.

Perhaps research the concept of "trauma bonding" and investigate traits of codependents.

I'm not insinuating you have a trauma bond or that you're codependent, only that narcissists seek out empaths and codependents.

I have suffered a trauma bond with a narcissist in my past and learning there were lables for my experiences and that others have been through it too helped me finally move on and build better boundaries and healthier relationships with others.