If you were dating someone who had to move away in the near future what would you do?

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Break up

Long distance relationship

Move with them

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I find myself in this situation where my boyfriend is going to join the military and chances are he'd be stationed somewhere else. I'm leaning towards long distance relationship, but he wants me to move with him. I don't know. I don't think I'm at that stage where I'm completely willing to give my whole entire life up for him, especially since we've only been dating for a few months now.

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mic11225 · 26-30, M

You would know the best because you know your own situation and what you want. If you were just looking for fun, or if you don't think you can handle the stress of the later 2 options(which is perfectly reasonable because its a very large sacrifice) or if its just the option you want to do then break ups the option to go. Long distance would be the smartest decision if you have long term goals of your own, I think move with would only be a really smart decision if a.) you aren't doing anything with your life and dont plan to b.) you don't have a reliable living place. C.) you want to do some moving every couple years. D.) You want to be a housewife and you already have kids with him.