If you were dating someone who had to move away in the near future what would you do?

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Long distance relationship

Move with them

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I find myself in this situation where my boyfriend is going to join the military and chances are he'd be stationed somewhere else. I'm leaning towards long distance relationship, but he wants me to move with him. I don't know. I don't think I'm at that stage where I'm completely willing to give my whole entire life up for him, especially since we've only been dating for a few months now.

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NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F

@Peanuts
I know all about that Basic stuff like letters and timed calls. My brother was in the army so I've been through that before. I have no problem with him going into the military at all. If anything, I actually like him more for his decision to join. I just rather a LTR relationship than having to move to where he'll be located (after basic when he has a permanent station that is) but him and I seem to not quite be on the same page there since he rather the opposite. Thank you for your comment though. I appreciate it. :)