If you were dating someone who had to move away in the near future what would you do?

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Long distance relationship

Move with them

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I find myself in this situation where my boyfriend is going to join the military and chances are he'd be stationed somewhere else. I'm leaning towards long distance relationship, but he wants me to move with him. I don't know. I don't think I'm at that stage where I'm completely willing to give my whole entire life up for him, especially since we've only been dating for a few months now.

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PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F

I think an LTR with regular Skyping (or other video messaging so you still see each other. During Basic you'll have to stick with letters, calls are timed, and infrequent in Basic training. For a better, more in depth letter, write a little each day. After Basic, and any special training he may have to go through, you'll be able to contact each other when you're both free. Tell your boyfriend that I am thanking him in advance for his service. :-) and you...stay strong. Be proud of your armed services man. :-)