If you were dating someone who had to move away in the near future what would you do?

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Long distance relationship

Move with them

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I find myself in this situation where my boyfriend is going to join the military and chances are he'd be stationed somewhere else. I'm leaning towards long distance relationship, but he wants me to move with him. I don't know. I don't think I'm at that stage where I'm completely willing to give my whole entire life up for him, especially since we've only been dating for a few months now.

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NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F

See, I'm fine with a long distance relationship, but he's been in a long distance relationship before where the girl was cheating on him the whole time so he's not thrilled about the long distance relationship thing at all. At the same time, it's hard for me to move away from the only place I've ever lived, my family, and my friends, give up my job, my schooling, my pets, and go live in a strange environment. If I've been with him for a year maybe I'd feel different, but it's only been about two months.