Ladies and gentlemen, What does equality mean for you in a relationship?

My money is my money. His money is also my money.l?

Her money is her, but also mine.

Should she pay for dates as well, since we are all equal? First or 2nd, dont matter or divide?

Should she hold the door for him like he is expected to hold for her?

Just wondering?

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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

I used to say to my husband, “What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is mine.” 😄

We share the bills. He typically pays for date nights now, but when I earned more than him, I paid.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@ChampagneOnIce nice!!! Did you hold the door for him?Or did he hold the door for you?

ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

@Chiefjustice he holds it for me unless he’s carrying stuff, then I open it. He opens my car door for me, too.

Younameit · F

It depends on who makes more in my opinion. If there’s a large disparity, then the person who makes more money should pay for things. You can’t expect a fast food worker who works to make ends meet to pay for expensive dinners for example, if you can afford them. It would be nice that they offered every now and then though.
If both make an equal amount of money then both should share expenses.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

Equality us when we do everything my way and everyone agrees 😇

KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F

My money is my money. His money is his money. Her money is her money.

mksworld · 51-55, C

Equality is and level of consensus on how to share your time and resources. Note the word 'share' implies equal parts.

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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, MVIP

Équality is actually quite simple. It has little to do with money or the allocation or resources or tasks. It it simply about mutual respect for the comtributions of the other. And the ability to listen..😷

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@whowasthatmaskedman In theory yes, if you look into the stats, finance is the #3. While communication is #1. Which also stems from unsaid and or unrealistic expectations.

1. Communication problems

Poor or ineffective communication is the top issue.

Includes constant arguing, not listening, misunderstandings, or avoiding discussions.

Over time, emotional distance builds when couples can’t express needs or resolve conflict.

CreyvinMoorhead · 41-45, M

Sharing who is on top

beermeplease · M

a man should always hold the door open for a lady...should always pay on a date....women aren't expected to do anything from a man's perspective....a good woman already knows what/how to please her man

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@beermeplease wait, says who? We suppose to follow equality, everyone is eqaul.when shit hits the fan court of law doesn't looks at facts. Not who opens the door for who.

beermeplease · M

@Chiefjustice if one is nice they get great hummers

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