If you have to hide what you're doing, it's wrong. That's what I say, and I'm not meaning you, here. 🤭
People who want to cheat on their partner, have no business getting married (or even being with someone you're not married to), if you're going to cheat. Cost is the least of their worries. It brings moral decay to our country and ourselves. It causes four more damage than some know. Where there is no honesty or trust, there's no relationship. I feel that if you're married and you're cheating on your spouse, it's better you leave that relationship if that's the type of life you wish to live. Another thing is, you risk giving your partner a disease of which they may not recover.
"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves." - Victor Hugo. This quote highlights the importance of trust and love in relationships, which infidelity can damage.
Infidelity is not just about sex, it's about breaking trust, betrayal, and broken hearts. You just don't hurt the person you cheated on, you hurt the family and many others, including yourself! It does not speak well of you. When you cheat on someone, you're not just breaking a rule, you're breaking a bond. Betrayal is like a needle that pierces the heart, and the wound may heal, but the scar remains.
The pain of betrayal is real, and it's not something you can just 'get over.' It's something you learn to live with, and it takes time, patience, and effort to heal. You wouldn't want it done to you, so why would you dare do that to someone you say you love? Talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words.