Affairs - Good or Bad

Some say they bring excitement, attention or temporary escape. But the truth is, they almost always leads to pain, broken trust and emotional chaos. What starts as a spark often ends in damage that lasts far longer than the thrill. In the end, it's less about judging, and more about recognizing the cost - and deciding if anything temporary is worth something permanent breaking.

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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

Hmmm.. The question is, "What led up to the affair?". Perhaps the affair will lead to chsmges, counseling, or at least communication over what is wrong in the relationship. One person might be abusive or there may be an illness that prevents intimacy, or they were never right for each other to begin with, or the couple just don't have time for each other anymore. If one person says they don't want to have sex or wont make time for it an affair or at least a transaction for services is going to happen.