Can men even approach women in public or at work anymore?

Without being automatically judged as not worthy via automatic 666-rule compliance assessment therefore deemed a predator?

I usually do not talk to the women at my work unless they talk to me first, and we are rostered to work together. It's too dangerous to even say a simple hello without a risk of being reported to HR for alleged SH.

In a public situation - no never. Not anymore.

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SatyrService · M

i have found his changes over time
when younger,, and *ahem* Hansome
it wa easy to chat up a lady
as I aged this became more challenging
and yet, tho i DO encounter those for whom ANY attempt @ contect is met harshly
"Creeper!"
and yet
i find the more attractive a woman is
the more approachable she becomes

CanofCokeZero · 31-35, M

I think you spend too much time online. People are people. Can't say hello? Like come one dude. You can have a conversation with people. Are just trying to hit on these women while they work, is that why you say you "can't approach women" no one is judging you as not worthy. They're trying to live their lives, same as everyone else. Seems to me you are viewing these women not as co workers or even human beings but something that you think you deserve, like get offline and stop istening to bro podcasts losers

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@CanofCokeZero What bro podcasts? At my work if you even look at a woman the wrong way you get reported. It's just not worth the risk to try to start personal banter, so the only conversations I have are professional level about the work. Personal conversations with women unless they start it are *out the door*.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

I don’t know. I would not eat where I shit. But I just took a SH test and I was told you could ask someone for coffee or dinner but if I were you I would never ever compliment -tread lightly lol.
They had this question “manager tells employee, Cheryl you look more easier on the eye than the other employees…” I was like that’s a compliment, no SH and I got it WRONG! 😑 whaaaaaa I mean it’s kinda creepy how he said it and I wouldn’t have reported him… but it sounds like any body compliments is SH. So don’t tell that girl “dam Cheryl you’re body is banging in that dress” 😭🤣🤣 “dam cheryl, you look more easier on the eyes than the other coworkers” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ask AI how to approach women at work without sh lol 🤣

MoveAlong · 70-79, M

Approach being the key word. I guess you just have to sort that out for yourself.

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