Question for the guys

Actually several questions. Whats your view of the dating world? What do you do when you find a gal you're interested in? In your opinion is it harder now than it ever was? If you don't case after girls, whats your reasoning?

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WillaKissing · 56-60

1. I quit trying the dating world 10 year ago. To many fakes that only valued what I had over whom I was.
2. Being a heterosexual cross dresser it is nearly impossible to find a woman that is interested in me, and again why I quit looking.
3. Yes, I would say so referring back to answers #1 and #2.
4. I just do me and what makes me happy, and if a woman falls into my life as I do then I will pursue her. But she better leave that changing and altering shit at the coat check like I have.

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WillaKissing · 56-60

[@JestAJester There ya go, I am glad you got it. It is not a disease like cancer. And I harm no one doing what I love to do.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@WillaKissing i dont have to agree with it or even like it. If its not causing harm I couldn't give a rats ass.

WillaKissing · 56-60

@JestAJester There you go! Good guy!

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

Not a dude but here you go: i do think it is harder now. Back then people were forced to find a wife/husband in their town.now you can talk to people all around the world.
You are also not forced to get married. People have too many choices.
"I do not chase" and "if she wants me she'll make a move" comments shows how some men got lazy.they do not have to put effort into dating because it is easier to find someone else

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Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone starting a conversation?

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@Girlbehindthecurtain yah that has been my mindset from time to time. Tired of the chase. But i know thats just not gonna fly. Ive been working on improving myself to become more desirable so to speak. Been trying to find the right opportunity to talk to girls at my gym since its the only time i actually get out

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@JestAJester that's a great start

Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

👩🏻🍿

Torsten · 36-40, M

i dont really know what the dating world is like.
I have never really chased after girls. Always had the mentality of if something is meant to be, it will happen naturally without me seeking it and for the most part, thats just how it has gone.
I am not going to pretend i know anything about women and what they like but not caring has certainly helped me when it comes to being with women and them actually initiating things with me, not the other way around

Spoiledbrat · F

I think sometimes it takes a while for a relationship to grow.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@Spoiledbrat Yes youre absolutely right. They're definately not easy but that makes them worth it too

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Dating is mostly just hooking up,FWB or nothing serious.
Harder now.
I don't chase. If she wants you she will tell you.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

It's still fair. Just hang around like minded people. Stay positive. Always keep an open mind. And just go with the flow. Have fun..🙂

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