Question for the guys

Actually several questions. Whats your view of the dating world? What do you do when you find a gal you're interested in? In your opinion is it harder now than it ever was? If you don't case after girls, whats your reasoning?

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Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

Not a dude but here you go: i do think it is harder now. Back then people were forced to find a wife/husband in their town.now you can talk to people all around the world.
You are also not forced to get married. People have too many choices.
"I do not chase" and "if she wants me she'll make a move" comments shows how some men got lazy.they do not have to put effort into dating because it is easier to find someone else

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@Girlbehindthecurtain If you have no intrest in me should I chase you?

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone i do not think they meant it that way...

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@Girlbehindthecurtain How will I know if you have intrest in me?

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone starting a conversation?

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@Girlbehindthecurtain yah that has been my mindset from time to time. Tired of the chase. But i know thats just not gonna fly. Ive been working on improving myself to become more desirable so to speak. Been trying to find the right opportunity to talk to girls at my gym since its the only time i actually get out

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@JestAJester that's a great start