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What are the benefits of getting married before 30?
Nelisme · 22-25, F
If you want to have kids… and still be young enough to enjoy your grandkids.
SW-User
My mind went blank and just found the non benefits.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User Hahaha 🤭 Nah I probably lost my innocence the earliest i know on sw 🤣
SW-User
@MartinTheFirst damn. 😂
@SW-User I am at 38 😂
SW-User
You have kids at your most fertile and most energetic years.

Leverage your youth, beauty and low (hopefully) body count to negotiate for as best a deal as possible.

Enough time and energy to plan career and family goals.

Enough time to make and correct mistakes before the jadedness of aging seeps in and locks you into your bad habits.
SW-User
@SW-User I had a long reply for you but then I came to my senses. This is really not a topic I want to discuss with women in general it's a useless endeavour so I won't be entertaining those questions,

However...

Do you think you speak for men in general or for more conservative men?

If it's reassurance you seek here fear not. Israeli scammers have a saying: there's a sucker born every minute .
SW-User
@SW-User If you are unable to discuss expectations and your view on women in the dating life you just have proven to me what kind of man you are.
An insecure and pathetic one.

You probably see masculinity as a set bag of traits and call anyone who dares not to follow these role expectations a sucker.
SW-User
@SW-User lol! Cool. Run with that. 😉 Enjoy your Friday
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
Biology
If your parents waited until 40 to have a kid and you waited until 40 to have a kid - that kid would never know their grandparents. PLUS you have to take care of an aged parent whilst bouncing a baby on your knee = no fun.
alan20 · M
If you're in love no need to ask. If you're not none at any age.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Contrary to what most people are saying, there isn't any real benefit other than evading social pressure. Romance, children, having a life partner... none of those really depend on marriage.

Marriage matters more towards the back end. It's easier to get power of attorney for medical, secure visitation in health care centers, and sort out inheritance stuff if you are married. Those things are also doable without marriage, marriage just greases the wheels a bit.
TexChik · F
Children. At 30 a woman might tend to be more erotic and romantic
TexChik · F
@MartinTheFirst While you do as a male determine the sex of the baby, its a 50/50 proposition. I have one of each.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@TexChik 😯 my sperm better be on point then! That'd be okay though, as long as we don't end up as the couple who tried 4 times with all sons
TexChik · F
@MartinTheFirst You better have a talk with them then and tell the Ys to take the day off, Its an X only affair! 😂
SW-User
When it's your dream to marry someone you love and have a family why not start early. Hopefully the start of a long life with someone you love.
if you have kids when your young,they grow up move out,, you hope,,you can have some of your retirement life in peace,,some times,,
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
If you want to fit the expected social mold, that’s the only supposed benefit.
InHeaven · F
Possibly giving birth to healthier offsprings. The younger the healthier
Kids.
More time together.
More growing together.
More shared experiences...
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
I don't see the point.
You're still fresh out of college likely and still starting out in your career. In your 30s you're likely settled financially.
Bang5luts · M
Building a stronger bond earlier on with your so. For a stronger, more durable family core.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
You still have a chance at finding virgins
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@MartinTheFirst That's being shallow minded.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Lichocolati yes im a bit of a shallow bish

 
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