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What are the benefits of getting married before 30?
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You have kids at your most fertile and most energetic years.

Leverage your youth, beauty and low (hopefully) body count to negotiate for as best a deal as possible.

Enough time and energy to plan career and family goals.

Enough time to make and correct mistakes before the jadedness of aging seeps in and locks you into your bad habits.
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@SW-User Why does the body count matter? 🙄
I do agree with the rest though
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@SW-User Why does his height matter?
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@SW-User It doesn't
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@SW-User oh but it does. However I'll answer your question with an actual answer.

It comes down to what men value in women which are youth beauty fertility and purity.

One of the most important things to a man is to ensure paternity. He can't do that with a promiscuous woman without doubt.

Past behaviour is a good indicator of what to expect in the future. Yes some people can change but there's a saying, [i]can't turn a hoe into a housewife[/i] .

It matters because most men determine whether they want to wife a women or not based on that knowledge. Much like how I imagine you wouldn't want a man with a criminal past, men don't want a woman that gotten around.

The higher a womens body count the greater the risk of divorce.

Plenty good reasons.
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@SW-User So men mostly value superficial traits in women?
Not every man or woman wants to have kids either.

Why can't he have kids with a woman who had many sex partners earlier?
Why turn any woman in a housewife? She either wants to be one or not.

It all depends on what the criminal past is. Do you think you speak for men in general or for more conservative men?
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@SW-User I had a long reply for you but then I came to my senses. This is really not a topic I want to discuss with women in general it's a useless endeavour so I won't be entertaining those questions,

However...

[quote]Do you think you speak for men in general or for more conservative men?[/quote]

If it's reassurance you seek here fear not. Israeli scammers have a saying: [i] there's a sucker born every minute [/i] .
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@SW-User If you are unable to discuss expectations and your view on women in the dating life you just have proven to me what kind of man you are.
An insecure and pathetic one.

You probably see masculinity as a set bag of traits and call anyone who dares not to follow these role expectations a sucker.
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@SW-User lol! Cool. Run with that. 😉 Enjoy your Friday