If your partner requests a threesome at your anniversary do you say yes or panic and get divorced?

@zonavar68 I disagree. Discussing new interests in a respectful way does not undermine a relationship or indicate a problem.
If a partner isn’t keen on the idea and the other keeps pushing it purely for their own gratification, that’s a problem!

@zonavar68


Very much to me !

In the past, I have experienced both: the +1M and the +1F

An experimental MMF was interesting because of their different styles, but hard work being taken twice.

MFF won hands down.
My Ex enjoyed having two females to play with.
Politeness decreed: guest first, of course, while I watched and assisted.
I enjoyed having a female to play sixty-nines with - he watched but his hands were playing with her.
I was told to kneel above her while he took me from behind.
He was particularly vigorous when I satisfied his desire for anal (which she had refused).

I wonder what FFF would be like ?

@emmasfriend I just think that unless it was approached in a complimentary positive way that suggesting threesomes is just a way to try and fix/repair/prop-up an otherwise failing relationship. I had such an offer from my first ex about 15 yrs ago when she tried to get me to agree to a 3some with another man she knew but I'd never met. I considered it briefly but said no. Otherwise I've never been in a situation where 3-somes may have been possible. Being single for 8+ yrs sort of renders 3-somes into the perverbial bin.

@Royricky09

I know right!

What happened to old fashioned love.

@QuietReverie it's still there...