Does promiscuity bother you in a partner?

No I don't think so, it only tells me I should be careful, which I already knew. I was with a man who told me he had been with many women just that year, at first it was kinda unsettling because I'm like where do you even know all these women? Hahah but also made me wonder about things like how fast does he get bored or does he want to prove anything or is it dangerous to pursue more in general? But I'm also the kind of person who lives for it as long as it's good and if there are no problems I won't think twice about it. Also in many cases people are going through a phase for various reasons and I'm not judging it at all. I also don't think I'm the one who will change them and eliminate their need to do it with lots of people so I proceed at my own peril but yeah generally I think I can forget about it pretty easily as long as it doesn't change anything about the way one views me. I know the men I've been with have had way more partners than I have but it didn't make me question our own thing. Also some of them believed I'm more promiscuous than I really am so I guess I give off the same kinda vibe.

yes it would definitely. I am not to be shared and I do not share.

In general its not healthy so yeah. The risk of stds and stis is increased ,especially as a female hpv for me is a concern , then i question what motivates a person to engage in sex so casually. I mean i love sex , i could have a lot of it and very often , but i dont think of most people as deserving to have that from me. It is my body and mind and I cant just casually give me away . The men I have slept with I knew for svral months before sleeping with them, i had established that connection where i knew i wanted to do it . but even then, it takes time to fully give myself away in bed. And casual /careless sex is actually linked to abusive people in general as well as serial killers and so on. So it is not just sex ,no

No. My wife was promiscuous during her late teens and early adulthood. It stemmed from a troubled upbringing she had. Even if it didn’t, I wouldn’t judge her either way. Her past is her business. That’s my take on it, anyway.

Honestly, it does matter to a few guys I know. They prefer women who aren't very experienced. All the men in my family married virgins, dunno how but it happened. My ex gets mad at women who sleeps around, etc. It's also depends on the culture but as for me, I prefer a man/ future husband to have more experience but with maybe at least two women. If he has a promiscuous path, I would worry a bit..

Well I would like to be loved and love back someone whose only mine. Unfortunately I never had a partner till date. But I imagine that relationship should be based on love and commitment.

It takes experience to find out what you do and don't enjoy, so it's not necessarily a bad thing.

It sounds like an asset to me! Besides, she was being honest.

It can do but not necessarily.

I’d love my wife to be like that

Who anyone relates to is their choice, just like what anyone does is their choice. I choose not to relate to those whose life choices and values are very different from mine. What's the point? Best to keep to one's own values, not society's, in my opinion.

Nope im pro miscuity

Yep sure matters to me.
If they just want to screw around and play the field then have at it, but they won't be doing it with me.

That's an issue my ex has with his new gf sadly. Says he doesn't trust her or feels spiritually comfortable

Nope it doesn't as long as what's good for the goose is good for the gander

I does matter. And the older you get the more you understand why.

It bothered me at first!