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Does promiscuity bother you in a partner?

I remembered a girl who liked me a while ago, she would tell me about having threesomes and hooking up with lots of guys, but she was upset that I didn't want to be with her. It wasn't the only reason but it was a really big one for me.

I think it matters, I know society sort of says it doesn't but.. 😬 muh gut don't lie
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HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
No I don't think so, it only tells me I should be careful, which I already knew. I was with a man who told me he had been with many women just that year, at first it was kinda unsettling because I'm like where do you even know all these women? Hahah but also made me wonder about things like how fast does he get bored or does he want to prove anything or is it dangerous to pursue more in general? But I'm also the kind of person who lives for it as long as it's good and if there are no problems I won't think twice about it. Also in many cases people are going through a phase for various reasons and I'm not judging it at all. I also don't think I'm the one who will change them and eliminate their need to do it with lots of people so I proceed at my own peril but yeah generally I think I can forget about it pretty easily as long as it doesn't change anything about the way one views me. I know the men I've been with have had way more partners than I have but it didn't make me question our own thing. Also some of them believed I'm more promiscuous than I really am so I guess I give off the same kinda vibe.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut that's a fair response. I've only been with one person physically and I'm happy with it, it was never important to me. She'd been with a lot of people and it did make me think a bit but I loved her so it didn't matter.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@Ryannnnnn if a true connection is there it doesn't really matter I guess. Just always with safety. Because whenever you have sex with someone, you're also having sex with their previous partners when it comes to STDs.