One of my exes showed up at my door 9 years after we broke up. I didn't even recognize her 🤣. She ruined her own day 🤣🤣

It means he’s suffering as much as you and that’s a good sign. He’s telling you he’s having his first okay day, so that means he’s not usually doing so well. I feel like that would help me sleep better.

I used to be a mortgage advisor and was contacted by an ex about arranging a mortgage when she wanted to move out of her parents.
It had been a few years so I arranged her mortgage and haven't seen her since.

I had a bad break up about 10 years ago. Lots of hard feelings bc he did it at the worst time and I was REALLY angry for a very long time. Then I saw him at a local grocery store about 3 years later. We talked for a bit like friends would. When I got home I think I sat there on the couch for an hour wondering wtf just happened after being so angry for so long. Closure. It was closure.

Sounds to me like it is too soon - has he really "broken up?" When I break up there is no further direct communication. Why would I? If it is over then it is fini, kaput, done!

For what would have been our 19th anniversary, I didn't message my ex; I sent her a $100 egift card. She thought it was spam.

Block!

Im afraid you have to go cold turkey no updates at all especially if its saying im moving on.

Well good for him, he should have kept that to himself. His lack of sensitivity is a reminder why he is your ex.

Lmao

Lol.. awesome

Maybe I’ll go message my ex and hope he’s eating in order to ruin his meal 😄

Eating can mean many things. I only know it to mean actual food.

They are an ex for a reason. They ruined things once they`ll do it again.

Adult breakups drag out so long...

That depends who broke up with who and why

Messing with a meal is a crime

There is a good reason they are called “ex”

When you feel like you need to tell your ex about how you're doing, just don't. If they gave a shit they'd have asked 👀

He must of been a bad boyfriend

Can you block him? It can help the heartstabs/stomachflopping