I Went Through A Break Up That Changed My Life [Painful Breakups] It’s been six months since...

SW-User

As long as it lasts

I noticed you gave up a lot rather than being yourself. Try to be yourself and maybe it'll heal.

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

Time will but it takes longer than six months.
Also seems it was a relationship you invested a lot in, like giving up things you liked just to please him.
Too much give not enough take from you.

Giaalexer · 26-30, F

You deserve better person. You are caring person you just need to take care of yourself more and try to have fun with your self until you find the right one. I wish you very good luck 🙂

bigjohndl · 70-79, M

Maybe because he was getting sex, he felt that he did not need to make a marriage commitment. Some people, male and female are like that. Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free.

hunkalove · 61-69, M

Stop looking outside yourself for happiness. Find things to do that you care about.

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Forever, probably, if it was any good. But it gets less and less as time goes on. It just takes a lot of time. 6 months isn't enough. More like 2 years. Though, women tend to get over such things faster.

In the meantime, there are other ways to assuage pain. And someone else might be able to help you heal a bit faster. Only another person can heal wounds of the heart, maybe.

wintersecret · 41-45, M

in the voyage of the love, u left ur own self somewhere behind..

find urself and u will be happier like u were earlier ( before love life).

catherina · 36-40, F

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Mahaq · F

As long as you sit lonely and cry will last forever
So try and be happy and forget him thts the best things you can do

Scarfface · 46-50, M

I can only say that time will heal, I think you will be OK

CovertStarGazer

Find someone else to have a good time with in the meantime.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Because he made you feel at fault. If he was unhappy for over a year and never once tried to discuss his unhappiness with you then the issue was his. There is and was nothing wrong with you. You can and will eventually move on. Allow yourself to grieve what you thought you had and there is no time limit for grief ...but soon enough you will need to start reminding yourself that if he wanted it to work he had the capability to do so.