What’s up with married men? Why can’t they make love to their wives properly?

@samueltyler2 Na. Being a woman on any social media platform means being propositioned by numerous married men. Trust me.

@FoxyGoddess that isn't what I meant, I meant that married men don't know how to make real love. Social media is virtual, and fantasy. It is fun to flirt here.

@samueltyler2 Gotcha! Thanks for clarifying! 😊

The sad thing is, the wife isn't fantasy and neither is the human being they are flirting with and fantasizing about.

@FoxyGoddess the wife is the love of their lives I assume, social media fulfills a fantasy desire. Men are wired that way. I insure my wife orgasms from prolonged love,bit has never been just a ln attempt to satisfy a primal need. I don't proposition anyone here, but i do enjoy a little flirtatious activity.

@samueltyler2 I hear you, but taking your statement and applying it to the world at large, it sounds like men consider women just here for their fantasy fulfillment and forget there is an actual living, breathing person at the other end who may be looking for more than flirtations and attention. That takes that woman away from finding someone who is actually free to love her, and not just making her an object for self fulfillment.

How is that fair to the woman if she believes the man who is flirting with her is unavailable to actually commit to her? Isn't that robbing her of the chance to meet someone who will?

It's selfish of the married man to lead her on.

@FoxyGoddess i assume that the women are also utilizing social media in the same way. They should if the don't, realize that there is an intermediary in a virtual relationship. I hoe my conversations re never perceived as such. Then again, I can only speak for myself. Am i leading you on? If I am, i apologize.

@samueltyler2 No, not at all. I am just speaking in generalizations.

The issue is, a lot of men don't bother to admit that they are married, and operate like they wish to have an intimate relationship, even though they are not at all free to do. That is unfair to both the wife and the woman online. The lying only protects him, but causes a lot of damage to those he has lied to.

In your case, you were fairly open about being married and I have my own boundaries to not engage flirtatiously with married men, so there was no issue there.

@FoxyGoddess thank you.