Are You Married? For How Long? Does It Get Easier? 😅

[b]This lady posted these points about marriage in a group. I don't agree with some but then again what do I know about marriage 😄. [/b]

[b][c=004A59]Don't marry if.....

1- you are not ready to tolerate nonsense.

2- you are not ready to suffer

3- you are not ready to submit to the leadership of a man unconditionally.

4- you are not ready to love a woman unconditionally.[/c][/b]

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DunningKruger · 61-69, M

1. All relationships involve tolerating someone else's nonsense. In marriage, it's just moreso.
2. Marriage does have its own brand of suffering.
3. I'm sure there are marriages in which are unconditionally led by a man. I've never seen one in the wild.
4. You'll notice that she doesn't say anything about a woman loving a man unconditionally.

I've been married for almost 22 years.

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@DunningKruger I think women easily fall in love. Maybe it's best I speak for myself 😅.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@Thandeka Some women do, I'm sure. Some men, as well. It's a common malady.

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@DunningKruger I always thought guys don't easily fall in love. I mean I've never met any guy that loves me truly. It's always [b]i love you but...[/b]

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@Thandeka It's possible that you simply never realize about the guys who love you totally, passionately.

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@DunningKruger Love is more actions than words. They might have said the words but when it comes to actions it didn't match. There was always a [b]but...[/b]

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@Thandeka There's always a but.